Kerry Day
We lost our eldest son Luke in 2010, and after a year or so faced the hardest decision of all.. what to do with his room and his possessions. We couldn’t bear to throw anything away. His clothes especially held so many memories, and it seemed sad that they were all locked away in a wardrobe. By word of mouth, we had heard of Teresa Bell and had seen some of her work. After many months of thinking, we decided to go and meet her. We could have posted Luke’s clothes to her, and communicated via phone and email, but it was important to me that I met Teresa (if I hadn't liked her, I couldn't have handed Luke’s clothes over to her!)However, within moments I knew we would go ahead. Teresa is one of the most special and sensitive people I have ever met. Nothing was too much trouble and she gave us advice which I shall always be grateful for. After hours of discussing different options, and the meaning of special garments, we finally decided on 2 small size quilts, and 13 cushions.
Teresa posted them to me when they were finished, and I was literally blown away by the end result. Each cushion is a work of art; each unique, but totally personal to Luke and expertly and beautifully finished. Teresa uses labels, pockets, ties, pillow cases; whatever you want to include. It makes them very tactile and helps to tell a story. I can’t even put into words how emotional the whole process was, but as a family we have gained immeasurable comfort from this. Instead of Luke’s clothes being locked away in his wardrobe, all the important people in his life ie family and friends have a small part of him, in something they can use every day, that they will treasure forever. Our daughter Rose cuddles her cushion in bed at night. She says it feels like she is hugging Luke. She writes him little notes and puts them in his shirt pocket. This is so comforting for her, and has really helped her to express her grief. My cushion is made using a shirt which has special memories for me.. It is precious beyond words, and it lives on the sofa in the corner where Luke used to sit.
Kerry Day